Edited Jun. 28, 2022 at 7:21 p.m.
Quoting: Billy739
I can set that aside enough not to judge people who still support rapists
But as a Victim of abuse who's been to court and knows what its like to be undermined by a Predator i gotta say i cant give Patrick that kinda pass.Even if lets say hypothetically its buyers remoarse how he handled himself set the tone and sent a message to victims everywhere
Instead of trying to make a positive impact and change like Mailloux's doing with his efforts to use his story to raise awareness.
Patrick tried taking the moral highground after choosing to get dirty
If he was innocent it should have come out in trial not by sicking thousands of angry fans to harass them
Dont matter how you spin it he knew what was going on and chose to say nothing to stop it
You can argue he didnt have to which is true.But to me there's a difference between defending your innocence and slandering others playing the "who looks worse " game
Being on the other side of it makes all the difference as before i went through it i had a lot of assumptions about right and wrong with regards to how it apply's to the legal system . What i learned is Jury's care less about what you go through and are putting themselves in not only your position but out of fear largely in the Accused's position. Their logic is better a 100 rapist walk free then 1 possibly innocent man be convicted. I get the logic to it but the trial isnt about them and never was making this type of bias a serious obstacle to over come and why in Sweden Judge's make rulings on cases like these. That said their Judge's arent bought and paid for by a Party like its a Nascar Sponsor either so they can do it that way i suppose lol
Its a really confusing and overly stressful process
To me the fact that a Judge can weigh past history but a Lawyer cant submit it to the Jury unless there's a conviction is one of the many reasons why our system doesnt function properly in this regard.
I am absolutely not someone who would, as you said, "still support a rapist" knowing what they have done. So, I just spent the last day, after our conversation, second guessing my conclusions, refreshing my memory and combing through all the available facts surrounding the accusations agains Patrick Kane, even going so far as to look into the backgrounds of the lawyers and district attorney involved and the timeline of events that happened,
And, after careful consideration, here are a few things I determined from those available FACTs:
1: this campaign of slander against the accuser, that you keep bringing up, doesn't even exist. It is almost impossible that it could considering the accuser was never revealed publicly. Even so, fans cannot be controlled, especially the types that go so far as to threaten other people on behalf of someone they don't even know.
2: All indications are that the girl was scamming, most likely for money, and got caught.
3: The Erie County District Attorney who made that determination has a career mired in fair and just rulings on important cases without bias or any trace of corruption. He described the accusers case as a "so called case" and "rife with reasonable doubt". Also, this all happened right before an election year. As a democrat in a blue state ruling against an alleged victim of rape in such a high profile case would be career suicide if there wasn't real tangible and reasonable doubt. And his track record would seem to indicate that he only has the best interests of his constituents in mind and doesn't bend to the will of the wealthy and powerful.
4: The girls lawyer was a scammer personal injury lawyer.
5: Seems pretty reasonable that Kane was silent because of the position he was put in and/or by the instruction of his lawyer and the organizations that he represents. But all that aside, silence is not a crime and is not inherently indicative of guilt.
I don't blame you for having bias or being suspicious, especially considering what you told me you have gone through. But the argument against 'victim shaming' doesn't mean that the accuser is always right. For true justice, due diligence is always warranted. I definitely don't think that Kane or anyone in the Blackhawks organization or the NHL as a whole, other than a VERY select few players coaches and executives, has been vocal enough about the subject of rape and other social justice issues, for my liking. My Blackhawks and Hockey fandom is hanging by a thread because of that. However, a lack of being vocal about something, depending on the subject can certainly be a PR nightmare, but it is not a crime.
Also, while what Mailloux did is not nearly as egregious as rape, IT IS proven and tangible. It seems to me, and this is just my opinion, Mailloux is just doing the bare minimum required to keep his hopes of a career in hockey alive. Yet, you paint him as a picture of remorse and change. Which seems like another opinion in which you have possibly shown bias, maybe because of being a Montreal fan. Not only that but you are the one that used P. Kane and E. Kane as comparable examples in the first place, playing a game of "who looks worse" of your own. Which is a tactic you essentially just argued as being petty and baseless.
All I'm saying is that, I do agree with you generally on a lot of what you are saying, but I think ignoring facts in favor of an emotional response or gut suspicion can be a dangerous game. We all have to make our own determinations on things, especially when the answers might not be so clear. I am absolutely open to the possibility that Kane might be guilty and there was some sort of corruption behind the scenes. But to me, in the case of the accusations against P. Kane, given the available information and what logically makes sense considering the timeline of events, indications are that he was not guilty of any wrong doing.